Many committed couples ask me “Is romance, real romance, still possible?” Happily, I am able to tell them “Yes!” And…it can even get better.

For more than 20 years, Sheryll & I have lived real romance every day.

— Douglas Reichwein, M.A., M.F.T.

Two Strong Individuals Living in Committed Partnership Can Keep Romance Alive

Outdated romantic myth suggests you need to surrender your individual self to live happily-ever-after – a myth driven by magical thinking and impossible expectations that committed partnership can never fulfill.

Is it any wonder our collective belief in the promise of romance has suffered?

But while outdated romantic myths failed to deliver, the promise of romantic destiny remains real. Studies show the #1 determining factor for happiness, health and longevity is committed relationship. Romantic partnership comes with a biologically built-in benefit.

Romance isn’t wrong – it just needs a 21st century, evidence-based reset!

We Teach You How to Create the Relationship You Desire

At Au Coeur Center, we know you need to develop skills, capacity, and wisdom to maintain a loving relationship – across time and beyond obstacles. Happiness, health, and longevity are your rewards.

In the outdated romantic myth, couples surrender their individual identities and boundaries to merge into an all encompassing shared self. This impossible trade-off results in less space to grow, love, choose, give, and thrive.

In our New Model of Relationship, two individuals maintain their separate boundaries and create a third “We” space where their relationship lives. As a result, comitted partners are able to grow as individuals and as a couple at the same time - providing ever-expanding love and greater well-being that endures.

Meet Your Teachers

Married Couple Douglas Reichwein, M.A. M.F.T. & Sheryll Reichwein, M.A. are relationship experts devoted to restoring romance to the heart of committed partnership.  

Douglas is a Marriage and Family Therapist who guides couples to unblock the flow of love and rediscover each other. Sheryll is an Adjunct Professor of Communication who teaches students the skills necessary to create and sustain a lifelong romantic partnership.

Together for more than 20 years, Douglas & Sheryll combine their successful personal experience and extensive professional expertise to offer you a New Model of Relationship – providing you with the concepts, skills, capacity, and wisdom you need to Fulfill Your Romantic Destiny.

Meet Douglas

Meet Sheryll

Douglas & Sheryll Introduce their New Online Course:

“7 Golden Rules for Communication with Your Partner”

FAQs - Our Relationship Courses

  • Definitely. If you use the 7 Golden Rules, we can promise you’ll enjoy more relationship happiness.

    But it’s important to point out the while the results are magical, the 7 Golden Rules are not magic. First, you’ll need to learn how to use them and then you’ll need to choose to use them consistently – but the results will be well worth the effort.

  • This Course includes 9 self-paced Units; one for each of the 7 Golden Rules as well as 2 Special Topic Units.

    On average, each Unit contains 10 Lessons which include:

    Video Conversations with Douglas & Sheryll (most less than 15 minutes)

    Slide & Audio Presentations that take a deeper dive into concepts & skills

    Guided Experiences

    Individual Workbook Reflection & Activities

    Shared Workbook Activities & Discussions

  • You and your partner do not have complete every lesson together. Many of the Lessons and Workbook Activities can be completed indivdually. And, each Unit will also include shared Workbook Activities.

  • Use this link to access your Free Preview with of Unit 1 “Golden Rule 1.” If you enjoy Unit 1 and want to continue, you’ll be able to purchase access to the entire course.

  • Unit 1 is Free. Use this link to access your Free Preview with of “Golden Rule 1.”

    If you want to purchase access to the entire course, “The 7 Golden Rules for Communication with Your Partner,” the cost is $159 - less than one couple counseling session in most markets.

“Sheryll and Douglas’ gentle yet powerful approaches have helped me to effectively move forward in my life.  I feel so deeply supported by them as I move through a period in my life that now feels exciting instead of just scary.”

JENNY - CHATHAM, MA

 

“I would highly recommend any one of the components in The Au Coeur Program. The best starting place to change the world is our very own heart. Au Coeur is aptly named.”

— DIANE- COTUIT, MA